{"id":338525,"date":"2025-03-11T17:09:04","date_gmt":"2025-03-11T15:09:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/djc.com.ua\/news\/9-common-purim-myths-and-misconceptions\/"},"modified":"2025-03-11T18:01:33","modified_gmt":"2025-03-11T16:01:33","slug":"9-common-purim-myths-and-misconceptions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/djc.com.ua\/en\/purim\/9-common-purim-myths-and-misconceptions\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Common Purim Myths and Misconceptions"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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9 Common Purim Myths and Misconceptions<\/p>

By Menachem Posner<\/p>

1. Myth: Mordechai Was Esther\u2019s Uncle<\/strong><\/p>

The Jewish holiday of Purim was established during the Persian exile, after the Jews had been saved from the genocidal scheming of Haman, advisor to King Achashverosh. The main heroes are Esther, the Jewish wife of the king, and her relative Mordechai. In many books and audio retellings of the Purim story, Mordechai is presented as Esther\u2019s uncle, who had raised her after her parents\u2019 passing. <\/p>

Fact: Mordechai Was Esther\u2019s Cousin<\/strong><\/p>

It is true that Mordechai raised Esther. However, the Megillah (Scroll of Esther) clearly states that he was her cousin, not uncle.1 Interestingly, the sages tell us that Esther was not just Mordechai\u2019s cousin\u2014she was also his wife! <\/p>

2. Myth: Haman Had a Three-Cornered Hat and Pointy Ears<\/strong><\/p>

On Purim, it is customary to eat a three-cornered pastry often filled with poppy seeds (fruit jams are also common), known as hamantaschen (\u201cHaman pockets\u201d) in Yiddish, and oznei haman (\u201cHaman ears\u201d) in Hebrew.<\/p>

Urban legend (as supported by many illustrated editions of the Megillah) is that the cookies\u2019 shape commemorates the three-cornered hat Haman wore. Another legend, especially popular in Israel, is that the tasty treats reflect the shape of Haman\u2019s ears. <\/p>

Fact: We Know Nothing About Haman\u2019s Wardrobe or Auricles<\/strong><\/p>

There is no evidence whatsoever suggesting that Haman\u2019s hat had three corners, nor is there any credible tradition about his ears. <\/p>

In fact, the pastry\u2019s most important feature is not its shape, but its traditional seed filling, called mon in Yiddish. Eating seeds on Purim recalls the devotion of Daniel (and later, Esther) who subsisted on seeds while living in royal surroundings to avoid eating anything non-kosher. <\/p>

Mon (poppy) is preferred3 because it is homonymous with the manot (\u201cportions\u201d), which we send each other as part of the Purim celebration.<\/p>

So why are the hamantaschen sometimes called \u201cears\u201d? Well, \u201coznayim\u201d (ears) can sometimes refer to non-Purim pastries. In describing the manna which fell from heaven while the Jews were in the desert, both Rabbi Yosef ibn Kaspi (1279-1340) and Rabbi Don Yitzchak Abarbanel (1437-1508) describe a pastry called oznayim, with no mention of Haman or Purim at all. (And in many Eastern European cultures, there are stuffed dumplings referred to as \u201clittle ears.\u201d) <\/p>

3. Myth: Haman\u2019s Sons Were Hanged on the Gallows He Had Prepared for Mordechai<\/strong><\/p>

A major focal point of the Megillah is the part where we read of Haman and his ten sons being strung up on the gallows (\u201ctree\u201d in Hebrew) that he had prepared for Mordechai. When asked how Haman\u2019s sons died, many people would probably answer \u201changing.\u201d <\/p>

Fact: They Were Already Dead<\/strong><\/p>

A careful reading of chapters 8 and 9 of Esther tells us that the king ordered Haman to be strung up on the tree he had prepared for Mordechai immediately after the plot was discovered (on Passover eve).4 His sons\u2019 deaths, however, took place nearly a year later on Adar 13, when they were killed by sword among all other enemies in the city of Shushan.5 Only after they were dead, did the king give permission to have their bodies hung on the gallows.6 Haman\u2019s sons were thus hung but not hanged. <\/p>

4. Myth: You Need to Give \u201cTwo Blessings\u201d<\/strong><\/p>

One of the four Purim mitzvahs (along with listening to the Megillah, giving gifts to the poor, and feasting) is to give mishloach manot: (at least two) portions of food. The source for mishloach manot is in the Megillah. \u201cMordechai… enjoined the [Jews] to make the fourteenth day of the month of Adar… feasting and joy, and sending portions one to another, and gifts to the poor.\u201d <\/p>

A common misconception, propagated by preschool teachers and others, is that the two portions must warrant distinct blessings (brachot). Thus, an orange (over which we say \u201cha\u2019eitz\u201d) can be combined with a candy bar (over which we say \u201cshehakol\u201d), but pasta salad and a danish would be problematic, since they are both \u201cmezonot.\u201d <\/p>

Fact: The Blessing Is Not Relevant<\/strong><\/p>

The halachah is that one must send two food portions, but they can be of the same blessing. In fact, the example given in the Code of Jewish Law is \u201ctwo portions of meat.\u201d Now, the blessing on all meat is \u201cshehakol,\u201d so there is surely no requirement for the two food items to have different blessings. <\/p>

5. Myth: Everyone Needs to Get Drunk<\/strong><\/p>

The sages say that a person should drink on Purim to the point that they \u201cdon\u2019t discern between \u2018cursed be Haman\u2019 and \u2018blessed is Mordechai.\u2019\u201d Some take this quite literally and drink so much wine that they lose awareness of their surroundings. In some communities (especially among the young), people may feel pressure to drink so much that they act inappropriately and even harm themselves and others. <\/p>

Fact: Maintaining Your Mental and Physical Health Takes Primary Importance<\/strong><\/p>

For someone battling addiction, even the smallest sip can be life-threatening. Drinking, according to the sages of the Talmud, can heighten the joy and excitement of Purim, so they declared it an actual mitzvah\u2014as long as you are confident that your behavior will remain at the high standard expected by the Torah. If you are planning to drive, or you know that drinking can otherwise get you in trouble, then alcohol might as well be pork juice. <\/p>

6. Myth: One Megillah Reading Is Enough<\/strong><\/p>

One of the four Purim mitzvahs is to listen to the Megillah being read in Hebrew from a handwritten parchment scroll. The other three mitzvahs (sending food portions, giving gifts to the poor, and enjoying a feast) are all done only on Purim day. The Megillah, however, is read once at night and then again the next day. There is a popular misconception that hearing it once is enough. <\/p>

Fact: You Need to Hear It at Night and Again During the Day<\/strong><\/p>

The sages of the Talmud tell us that we need to hear the Megillah twice.<\/p>

Rabbi Joshua ben Levi taught that this is a reflection of the verse in Psalms, \u201cO my G\u2011d, I call in the daytime . . . and in the night I am not silent,\u201d9 which is part of a chapter that the sages of the Talmud associate with Queen Esther.10 As the threat of genocide loomed, the distressed Jews of the Purim story cried out to G\u2011d during the day and night. As such, we recall His kindness on the eve of Purim and then again the following day.<\/p>

Rabbi Chelbo would quote Ula of Biri, who associated this practice with the verse in Psalms, \u201cSo that my soul will sing praises to You and not be silent . . . I will thank You forever.\u201d11 Reading the Megillah twice is thus an expression of thanksgiving to G\u2011d, as well as a testament to His everlasting kindness. <\/p>

7. Myth: You Do Not Need to Hear Haman\u2019s Name<\/strong><\/p>

A beloved Purim tradition is to twirl graggers (ratchets), bang, shout, stamp our feet and generally make a ruckus when Haman\u2019s name is mentioned in the course of the Megillah reading.<\/p>

Some people are so overzealous in \u201cstamping out Haman\u201d that they don\u2019t hear his name chanted aloud by the reader.<\/p>

Fact: You Need to Hear Every Word of the Megillah<\/strong><\/p>

We are required to hear every word of the Megillah, even those that refer to unsavory folk. In many communities, the reader will pause after saying Haman\u2019s name to give everyone a chance to make noise before repeating it once again and continuing the reading. It is important not to make any noise during this repetition. After all, if someone misses even one word, they need to hear the entire reading again! <\/p>

8. Myth: Purim Is the Jewish Halloween<\/strong><\/p>

A beloved Purim custom is to don masks and dress up in costume. This has led many to erroneously label it the \u201cJewish Halloween.\u201d <\/p>

Fact: Halloween Doesn\u2019t Hold a Candle to Purim<\/strong><\/p>

The custom to dress up on Purim was recorded as many as 500 years ago\u2014long before the modern holiday of Halloween took shape.<\/p>

But the difference runs far deeper than that. What do Jewish kids do when they put on their costumes? They give out treats to their friends and hand coins to beggars. Quite the polar opposite of Halloween, when children are taught to cause mischief and beg for treats. <\/p>

9. Myth: Purim Is a Minor Holiday<\/strong><\/p>

Along with Chanukah, Purim is often dismissively referred to as a minor holiday, since it was instituted hundreds of years after Moses communicated G\u2011d\u2019s command to keep Shabbat, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Sukkot, Passover, and Shavuot. This can send the (not so subtle) message that its observance is not terribly important. <\/p>

Fact: Purim is Mandated in the Bible and Its Message Is Vital<\/strong><\/p>

Similar to Chanukah, work is permitted on Purim, and it is counted among the seven \u201crabbinic\u201d mitzvahs. Yet, the Book of Esther is part of the Biblical canon, and the observance of the holiday is clearly spelled out there in chapter 9. <\/p>

In a sense, Purim has a relevance and urgency to us, above all other holidays. Purim developed bottom up, the product of the faith and prayers of the Jewish nation then living outside of Israel, under a foreign power. They had every reason to abandon Judaism to save their lives, but they chose to proudly maintain their commitment, even though it put them squarely in Haman\u2019s crosshairs. <\/p>

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